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Connect Deeply Over Dinner

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Three Buckets is a dinner party game.

You know that feeling – that longing, that loneliness, that desire you can't quite put your finger on?

We've all felt it. Maybe it hits while you’re sitting at a table full of people, wondering why the other side is laughing so hard at something you must not have caught. Maybe it comes after spending time with family or friends, when you realize you still have an unfulfilled desire to connect on a deeper level. Maybe you simply want to start having meaningful conversations but don’t know where to start.

Whatever you might call “that feeling," authentic connection is its antidote.

Imagine feeling deeply connected to your family and friends, knowing that you are seen, heard, valued, safe, and deriving strength and sustenance from relationships. Real connection is hard, but it’s the cornerstone of a full life.

Three Buckets is the game created to help you and your people connect so you feel known and understood. It's made to be played around the dinner table, campfire, or anywhere where you can gather in a circle and see everyone's faces. You can play with your friends, your family, your colleagues, and even your clients (especially if you’re a counselor like Sarah, who created Three Buckets).

Gather your people around the table, light a candle or two, and put on some great tunes. Let's play Three Buckets.

Sarah Aughtman | Creator of Three Buckets

I'm on a mission to restore meaningful conversation to our lives.

As a licensed therapist, I'm reminded every day that loneliness and disconnection are two of the most destructive forces on the planet. They lead us to anxiety, depression, and other rough stuff.

Connection, however, is pretty magical. It enhances every part of our existence and helps us live fully alive.

That's what Three Buckets does – it's a carefully constructed game that enables connection by way of meaningful conversation. It isn't easy, but man is it worth it.

Do you want the full Three Buckets experience – to connect with your people and yourself – done for you? Click here to hire me to facilitate your evening, take the pressure off hosting, and help you know you're "doing it right" so you will get the most out of the night.

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Three Buckets, Limited First Edition


Are you ready to connect deeply over dinner? Three Buckets is perfect for groups of friends, small groups, church groups, families, or anybody who wants to connect more deeply with their people. The First Edition of Three Buckets is available for purchase now, and will ship November 2nd, 2020. Only fifty are available.

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What people are saying about three buckets

"An Antidote to Modern Loneliness"

"My relationships with all involved in my Three Buckets experience have strengthened as a result of this beautiful connection."

"The online world has so much utility but has left many of us feeling lonely as we often sacrifice intimate connection and relationships with others for quick 'likes' online as an efficient substitute. Three Buckets is an amazing antidote to this common ailment as it brings people together to connect over their questions about life, their desires, and their hunger to be known by people who matter to them. My relationships with all involved in my Three Buckets experience have strengthened as a result of this beautiful connection. I am incredibly grateful and I highly recommend this experience!”

Eric Flores, Musician

Nashville, TN

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"I left feeling connected, heard, known, and healed in the most unexpected way—this is the kind of belonging we were made for."

"I came away from my first Three Buckets dinner feeling truly seen by those around the table, and I was surprised as I became aware of desires I didn’t even realize were there. I left the feast feeling more connected, heard, known, and healed in the most unexpected way—this is the kind of belonging we were made for. It has become a treasured memory and an echo of something greater."

Gina Hurry, Artist & Founder of InSpero

Birmingham, AL

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"It was one of the most special nights of our lives. We were able to connect in a completely new way."

"Three Buckets is more than a game, it is an answer to some of the most important questions I hear in my practice every day. Why am I so lonely? How do I make friends? Where is my community? What can I do to bring more depth to my relationships? How can I share more of my true self with others? Do I have the power to make the world a better place?

My eighteen-year-old daughter and I hosted a Three Buckets night for four of her friends and their mothers. It was one of the most special nights of our lives. We were able to connect in a completely new way, not only as moms and daughters but as women really seeing each other for the first time. To realize you are not alone in your fears, your joys and your questions, to be given space to share something real of yourself and to be given a chance to practice really listening… these are the things that heal us. The process is simple, the experience is profound. The world is a better place for the invention of this game."

Jenny Black, Media Trauma Expert & Therapist

Nashville, TN

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Are you ready to connect deeply over dinner? Three Buckets is perfect for groups of friends, small groups, church groups, families, or anybody who wants to connect more deeply with their people.

The First Edition of Three Buckets is available for purchase now, and will ship by November 6th, 2020. Only fifty are available.

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